unfuckwithable
SELF-RESPECT
Fall Dates & Deets Coming Soon!
A 2-day virtual experience for single or recently separated highly-motivated, heart-centered, purpose craving men who are ready to become THE MAN their future wife and children will look up to. Who want to attract a purposeful partnership, built to last, within the next 6-12 months.
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3-hour session each day
What You'll Learn:
What you can expect to learn, and who you'll be inspired to become:
1
How regularly implementing a few simple, effective somatic practices will radically redefine how you see yourself, so you can assertively communicate your wants, needs, standards and feelings, in all your relationships - romantic, familial, and professional.
2
How you could meet your future wife, and start building a partnership built to last, in the next 6-12 months.
Without having to use anymore of these dumbass, draining dating apps.
3
How to show up to the dating process cool as a cucumber, oozing genuine, kind, unfuckwithable self-respect.
(and save precious time, money and energy chasing chicks that aren't right for you).
4
How to take advantage of the post-breakup period, rebuild yourself back stronger than ever, and get ready for the right relationship, so you never have to feel this kind of confusing, agonizing pain again.
5
How to become THE MAN your future wife, kids and community will admire. How to own your worth, make an impact, and leave a legacy you are damn proud of.
I'll ALSO show you ...
how clarifying and focusing on your mission will actually get you the [right] girl FASTER than excessive dating
You belong here if . . .
Self-criticism, self-doubt, low self-worth and overthinking have plagued and ruined your long-term relationships
You chronically crave and chase female validation, keep trying to get your ex's back and don't know how to just be your fucking self in relationships.
Your career is rock solid, but you've hit relationship rock bottom.
You're coming out of yet another breakup, or recent separation, and you're fed up with the vicious cycle of failed relationships
You've done therapy, read all the books, listened to the podcasts, become BRUTALLY AWARE of your attachment style but still don't feel, or can't show up, differently in your relationships.
You who want to meet your future wife in an organic, authentic manner (rather than performing on dating apps).
You want to actually take the lead and go after what you want, instead of accepting whatever [scraps] you can get.
Finding the right partner is not just about filling a void inside you.
You want to build a family. And to leave the world a better place for your future children and your childrens' children.
What we'll do in this experience:
Day 1:
Emotional Freedom
How to stop chasing, distracting and numbing out with female attention (so you can chose the right partner for you with clear standards and self-assurance)
How to kick self-doubt to the curb (so you can feel comfortable in your own skin, confident in who you are and what you bring to the table)
How to process and clear your emotional baggage (so you don't carry it with you into, and ruin, the next relationship)
Day 2:
Relational Confidence
How to post-mortem your past relationships (so you can make damn sure you don't repeat the same mistakes, or lose yourself, in the next one)
How to have hard conversations and set boundaries without sweating your ass of (so you can calmly, confidently ask for, and get, what you want in your relationships)
How to clarify/raise your standards and relational skillset (so you can attract high-quality, emotionally mature, growth-oriented women who respect you, who can take responsibility, and can repair and reconnect after conflict)
How to calm your insecurities, and any feelings of urgency, with a strong sense of purpose (so you can become the type of man your future wife and kids will look up to)
CONSIDER ME IN!!
"one of the best investments in myself that I’ve ever made...
Quiggy is one of the first professionals I’ve encountered working in the care industry who I’ve felt a deeply valuable connection with, and who has communicated genuine compassion to me...It’s the first time in a long while that I’ve felt genuinely grounded in myself and truly excited about the future and inspired by its infinite possibilities. I have a lot of love for Quiggy and deep gratitude for crossing paths with him."
- TOM -
"Coach Quigg will forever have a place in my heart...
Since working with Coach Quiggs...I've found myself absolutely loving who I am - playful, vulnerable, authentic, curious, creative, funny, intentional, grounded and balanced. I feel comfortable in my own skin.
And I’ve felt more aligned in how I show up in love and leadership. I’m in a relationship that feels deeply nourishing, friendships that are filled with love and light and I have unlocked calm confidence in the way I lead others.”
- ROB -
Meet Your Host
Jonathan Quigg aka Coach Quigg
Coach Quigg is a certified Self-Love Coach for Men and Mindfulness Teacher who has devoted a pHd's worth of time, money, attention and intention into his own personal, spiritual, relational & professional development over the past 15 years.
Along the way, he has sat on over 20 silent meditation retreats and has traveled to 40+ countries.
In his six years as a coach, and many more as a mentor, he has helped over 1000 of his clients & community members learn to better love & respect themselves, live more purposefully, serve more authentically and show up more confidently in their relationships.
He's held meditation classes, workshops, ecstatic dance parties and epic retreats, with more, including an adult summer camp, well on their way.
With their first baby boy en route, he lives with his partner Alexandra and their Frenchie puppy Princeton in Minnesota.
He loves to DJ for a wicked crowd, dance his ass off to house and bass music, explore new places, spend quiet time in nature, talk culture and philosophy, become any number of his whacky improv characters and share an infinity of deep belly laughs with his people.
"I feel empowered to face my shortcomings, and the inevitable slings and arrows of life, with patience, agency, and gratitude...
Not only is it immediately obvious that Quiggy pours his heart and soul into this retreat, it is also immediately apparent that the lessons, skills, and concepts that I learned while participating in the coaching are well designed and are based in the psychology of how to live a good life...I even had the opportunity to lead a sing-a-long while playing ukulele, even though I have a huge amount of performance anxiety around playing music in front of others. This is the level of comfort I was able to feel while spending time with my new found family of passionate beings."
- JARED-
"The insights and tools I gained continue to shape my life in profound ways....
I am more attuned to my own inner voice, more aware of my strengths, and more confident in pursuing my dreams. The growth I experienced under your guidance has been a catalyst for positive change in my life and relationships, and I am forever grateful for that...
The bonds formed during our time together were deep, meaningful, and infused with a sense of authenticity. The shared experiences, vulnerable conversations, and joyful celebrations forged friendships that will endure far beyond the retreat. It was truly a gift to connect with like-minded souls and to be surrounded by a tribe of individuals committed to personal and collective growth....
it is the balance you struck between celebration and intentional personal growth that left a lasting impression...
a sanctuary where we learned to embrace the beauty of life, appreciate the present moment, and nurture our own well-being."
- CHRIS -
What Makes This Different THAN other free events?
This is not your typical, carrot-on-a-stick, get-you-to-buy-my-program-on-the-call kind of free event.
What you are getting is more like two, free half-day retreats.
Where I'll give you as much of my expertise, as much of a lived experience of my work, as I possibly can in the time allotted.
I'm happy to offer that service freely to you.
But this isn’t for everybody.
I'm strict about the caliber and intentions of men I let into this space.
Because I'm committed to creating a room that is secure, present, engaged and ready to get down to business.
This is only for the men who are ready to do the work (and play, of course) required to have new relational outcomes in their life.
As such, in order to be accepted, you got/get to book and attend a 10-15 minute pre-event Connection Call with me to complete your registration.
(You'll schedule that on the next page).
I like to get to know and vet everyone who comes to the event, beforehand.
After the event, some of you will be happy to stop there.
Take the free information, the practices I teach you, and see if you can apply them on your own.
Some of you may be able to do that successfully. And more power to you.
Some of you will remain in LaLaLand, trying to lone-wolf it, maybe learning to say the right things, but inevitably staying stuck in your head, repeating the same patterns, but never becoming someone different.
For the men who recognize that what's required to actually evolve is consistency, structure, accountability, community, and support from those that have gone where you want to go.
For the men who know that in order to advance in their relationships the way they have in their career, they must invest the same way in their own personal, relational development.
For those men, I offer a transformational program I'll share the details of on Day 2.
You won't be able to buy anything then, and for the right men, you'll have an opportunity to explore what's possible and see if you are a good fit, with me, after the event.
Of course, you'll have to come see, and experience, for yourself.
If this all sounds good to and right for you, click the link below to register and book your pre-event call with me on the next page.
I'm looking forward to getting to know you.
This is gonna be fun.
Big Love,
Coach Quigg
LFG!!